Hi Friends,
I trust you found some inspiration and ideas to implement and celebrate fall. This week, I thought it would be helpful to talk about worry, especially, as we here in Florida are awaiting the second hurricane in a week.
"From Panic to Purpose: How to Stay Centered During a Hurricane"
When a hurricane approaches, the feeling of fear, anxiety, and uncertainty can become overwhelming. It’s natural to worry about your safety, the safety of loved ones, and the unknowns of what might happen. And if this is your second hurricane in a short time, those feelings may be even more intense. But while we can’t control the storm itself, we can control how we respond to it—both physically and emotionally.
In moments of fear and anxiety, it’s easy for worry to spiral into panic. But, what if you could turn that energy into something positive? What if you could shift your mindset from fear to empowerment? It’s possible to find purpose and calm in the chaos, and I’m here to guide you through how to do just that.
1. Reframe Your Fear: From Panic to Purpose
Fear is a natural human response to uncertainty, and a hurricane is about as uncertain as it gets. But here’s a different way to think about fear: instead of viewing it as something that’s paralyzing, consider it an opportunity to take action.
When we feel fear, it’s usually because we’re imagining worst-case scenarios that are out of our control. This can lead to a sense of helplessness and panic. But, if we focus on the things we can control—the actions we can take right now to prepare for the storm—we shift from panic to purpose.
Ask yourself:
What’s one thing I can do right now that will help me feel more prepared?
Is there something I can do to create a sense of order amidst the chaos?
What small action can I take that will make me feel empowered?
By focusing on small, manageable tasks, you can transform worry into action, which will naturally help you feel more in control and grounded.
2. Embrace the Uncertainty: Letting Go of the Need for Control
One of the biggest sources of anxiety in a hurricane is the feeling of not knowing what will happen. The unpredictability can make it hard to think clearly or to feel at ease. But here’s the thing: while we can’t control the outcome, we can control how we respond to uncertainty. And often, the more we try to control things beyond our grasp, the more anxious we become. This is where the concept of radical acceptance comes in. Radical acceptance doesn’t mean you’re giving up or being passive; it means you’re acknowledging that some things are beyond your control—and that’s okay. In fact, accepting uncertainty can actually bring a sense of peace. It’s about saying, “I don’t know exactly what’s going to happen, but I trust that I have the strength to handle whatever comes my way.”
Action Tip: Take a moment right now to release the need to control the hurricane or the outcome. Focus on what you can control—such as your preparation, mindset, and emotional responses. Let go of the rest.
3. Use Worry as a Catalyst for Action
If you find yourself spiraling into a worry loop, it’s helpful to pause and acknowledge it. But, instead of letting that worry consume you, you can use it as a catalyst for action. When we let worry run unchecked, it can overwhelm us and create a sense of helplessness. But, when we acknowledge our worries and then turn them into actionable steps, we reclaim our power. It’s like taking the energy that fear gives us and channeling it into something productive. For example, if you’re worried about losing power, taking action like charging your devices, filling up water bottles, or securing backup supplies can immediately ease that anxiety.
Action Tip: Create a Worry List where you write down all the things that are causing you stress or fear. Then, for each worry, ask yourself: “What’s one small action I can take to ease this worry?” Even if it’s just one step, taking action makes you feel less overwhelmed.
4. Stay Present with Mindfulness and Grounding
In the face of uncertainty and fear, it’s easy for our minds to race, imagining worst-case scenarios that haven’t even happened yet. To stop this spiral, stay present in the moment. Mindfulness and grounding techniques are great ways to bring your attention back to the here and now. These practices help you manage fear by connecting you to the present, where you’re safe, and where the storm hasn’t yet reached you.
Here’s a simple grounding exercise to help you feel more centered:
5-4-3-2-1 Method: Look around you and name:
5 things you can see
4 things you can touch
3 things you can hear
2 things you can smell
1 thing you can taste
This simple technique can help quiet a racing mind and bring you back to the present moment, which is often where we feel the most calm.
5. Focus on What You Can Control, and Let Go of the Rest
In times of crisis, it’s easy to focus on the things we can’t control. The path of the storm, the actions of others, or what may happen in the coming days—these are all things beyond our influence. But focusing on what you can control—your actions, your mindset, your preparation—can significantly reduce anxiety.
Ask yourself:
What can I do right now to prepare?
How can I support myself and my loved ones emotionally during this time?
How can I create a sense of calm in the face of uncertainty?
Even the smallest steps, like having a go-bag packed, securing a safe space, or making sure you have enough food and water, can give you a sense of control. This can help reduce the mental and emotional toll that comes with uncertainty.
6. Practice Self-Compassion: You’re Only Human
It’s also important to recognize that feeling anxious or fearful during a hurricane is completely normal. Don’t be hard on yourself for feeling this way. The goal isn’t to be perfect or to eliminate fear completely—it’s about managing it and allowing yourself grace.
Take a moment to practice self-compassion. Speak to yourself like you would speak to a friend who is going through the same thing. Remind yourself that it’s okay to feel scared or worried. And in those moments of fear, gently guide yourself back to the present by practicing deep breathing or grounding techniques.
Action Tip: Write yourself a note of encouragement: something like “I am strong, and I will get through this. I have handled challenges before, and I can handle this one too.” Keep it in a place where you can see it when fear starts to creep in.
This weeks affirmation :
No matter what life throws at me, I remain grounded and calm.
Isabelle
You are loved. Deeply loved. Loved beyond measure.
Until next time,
Isabelle
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